My wife has a bad temper. Often, our disagreements turn to angry fights where she raises her hand to me.
I don’t hit her back when she slaps me or kicks me, but this is no way to behave. In anger, she will also say terrible things like, ‘why did I marry you’, ‘you are not even good in bed’,
Initially, it was OK, she didn’t hit that much, and nor were her words so hurtful. I felt with time, she’d grow out of it, but over time she has got more violent and that worries me.
On most days, she is calm. When she is calm, even then I’m afraid to bring this up and discuss it with her, as that leads us back to fights.
What do I do?
Frank, Kwadaso.
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