Habits That Are Keeping You Single

There is nothing wrong by being single because people are single due to many reasons. If you are single by choice, let me save you energy and time this post is not for you.

If you want to be in a relationship but you end up being single, I have some reasons that are making this happen to you.

One of the reasons is failing to compromise. You know when we meet new people and be in relationship with them, you have to understand that these people have different perspective of life to you. You should know that they have different reasoning and understanding. This leads to a central ground that you should both be to. You should compromise some of your actions and other things so that the other person can feel respected and valued. Not all things must go your way.

The other reason is being too needy. This means that you depend a lot on your partner for maybe time, expenses or even ideas. When you depend too much on your partner you become a burden to them. Relationship is all about everyone making effort to maintain it, not one sided effort.

Being overly critical. This is being so insecure to show your feelings or sharing your emotions to your partner because your are fearing to be vulnerable. In some cases, being vulnerable to your partner helps them understand you and even feel appreciated that they can be of help in the relationship.

The other one is, being overly guarded. This is where you become too insecure such that you are jealous when your partner talks to her friends. Like you always feel your partner is going to cheat on you any time. People who are overly guarded always try to control the person they are in relationship with and it is not good for that relationship.

The last one is, being emotionally unavailable. This is where you don't show love to your partner, you are not empathetic or you are not willing to share emotions with your partner. By doing this your partner will not feel connected or comfortable with you.