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Mr Nelson Is Not My Real Father - Yvonne Nelson Sadly Reveals

The constant bashing of bad fathers by Yvonne Nelson has been as loud as the trumpet of the last day. Every year on Father's Day, she honors her mother, but she now hates it all because she has learned that her mother lied to her.


Her persistent criticism of deadbeat fathers has portrayed her actual father, Mr. Oko Nelson, as a negligent parent. 'I Am Not Yvonne Nelson,' the actress's new book, contains a surprising plot twist in which she confesses that the man is not really her father.

Since learning that the man she has been calling out is not her biological father, Yvonne Nelson is currently experiencing agonizing anguish and regret.



"I have no idea how to start this or what it will accomplish, but I have strong feelings about it. I am aware that I must act. Even though the time is off and my apologies might not mean much to you, I feel I need to apologize to you, she said.



Mr. Nelson passed away before the actress could apologize to him in the hospital, which made matters worse for her because she discovered the secret knowledge just as he was about to pass away.



"However, find a place in your heart to forgive me, no matter where you are. Because of what my mother told me about you, I started to feel resentful towards you. When I tried to get close to you, your rejection simply served to support her assertion that you didn't like me, so I had no reason to disbelieve her".





I even once believed that you despised me. I was aware of the tension between you and my mother, but I didn't deserve for my father to treat me like a piece of rag. I observed your response in such way, she recalled.



" According to Yvonne, one cannot blame a child who constantly heard that her dad did not like her. It is apparent that the youngster will learn to hate him. I couldn't fathom why a man would despise his own children. It was the reason I gave you a bad reputation in the various media interviews I allowed. The information I knew about you ended there. I didn't go overboard, but I did speak the truth. I did not think twice about declaring in public that you were not a part of my life. I was right at the time".


In her book "I Am Not Yvonne Nelson," Yvonne Nelson set out a chapter to express her regret to the guy whose surname she mistakenly bears as a result of her mother's deceit.


"However, I now realize that there was absolutely no reason for you to be a part of my life. Nothing, not even your last name, is owed to me. Since learning the truth, I've come to the conclusion that you might have encountered difficulties independent of mine. I wasn't your daughter, and you weren't my father, she said.

Mr. Nelson passed away in 2017, but the actress chose not to even go to his funeral since she thought the deceased was her father, who didn't love her.


I truly apologize to you, your children, and your family. I'm sorry for all the negative things I spoke about you. I wish you were still around so I could tell you this in person. When I visited you in the latter half of 2016, as you were nearing the end of your life, that is when I first learned from my mother that you were not my father. I remained in amazement. You left before I could check the truth," Yvonne remarked.




She said, "I regret that I was unable to apologize to you in person. Even if my mother ought to have offered the initial apology, I wish I could kneel by you and apologize. But that's not the only thing that makes me wish you were here. If you knew the with, that would have been wonderful to know. If you knew I wasn't your daughter, and more importantly, if you knew of anyone else who did, I would have wanted to know".



"Now, all that is not necessary," Yvonne wrote at the end of chapter 23 of the book. Even though I will never know the backstory, I now know the truth. I wish things had turned out differently. Wherever you are, I humbly beg your pardon. Please pardon me for bringing your name into disrepute".


Because she claims she cannot comprehend why her mother lied to her about Mr. Nelson, Yvonne's relationship with her mother has deteriorated as a result of this upsetting news. Later, she explained in the book that it has been a year since she last saw her mother.

I Am Not Yvonne Nelson, which now reveals that "Nelson" is the actress' name, centers on this revelation as its conclusion.