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Alby News Ghana Blog of Thursday, 2 March 2023

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Words To Tell A Woman To Get Her Attention

19 Things to Say to a Girl You Like to Get Her Interested in You

What should you say to a girl you like in order to win her over? There are many things you could say, but these are the ones you ought to say.We are not as complicated as you like to think we are when it comes to girls. Although we are not simple, you don't need to act or speak in an absurd manner to catch our attention. There aren't many complicated things to say to a girl you like.

Also, you don't need to make a large gesture. Ladies adore guys that are honest, self-assured, and flexible.

Don't mention these things to a girl you like.

As I previously stated, girls don't require grand gestures and romantic declarations to like you or recognize your interest in us. Avoid saying these things if you want a woman to like you.

Additionally, it involves believing them as well as simply uttering them. You should never say the following things to a woman you like: I mean, any chick Ever.

1. Everything that begins with "I'm sorry, but..."

2. Do you have a period?

3. You either have too much or not enough makeup on.

4. You're not a typical female.

Either eat more or less.

6. You'd be ideal if...

7. I'm not a feminist.

8. Women complain excessively.

9. Either you take things too seriously or it was simply a joke.

10. Be calm.

I could definitely add hundreds of additional items to this list. I think you get the idea. Any of the ten statements listed above are not only offensive, but they are also frequently misogynistic, ignorant, and sexist.

Being any of those things would undoubtedly make a female you like not like you.

How to approach a girl you like

Here are the good things: Ideally, you are aware of the kinds of things you should refrain from saying and even thinking. Yet since you can find yourself at a loss for words when talking to a female you like, having prepared remarks is a terrific idea.

Don't say these things out of the blue, though. You must be able to assess a situation and recognize the right time to act. Don't compliment her beauty, for instance, if she is discussing her cat's UTI. To understand how to subtly introduce these topics into a discussion, you may need some experience. You are capable of doing it.

The effort you make to learn what to say to a female you like will be appreciated by girls.

1. You Are Beautiful.

But be explicit and avoid making this the main point. The hearing is usually pleasant. But girls want to know that you're not just interested in us because of how we appear.

2. You are smart.

Every woman is clever in her own unique way. Some people are extremely sensible, while others are scientific geniuses. More than any physical flattery, expressing your admiration for a woman's mind and its functioning is powerful.

3. I Adore Your Strong Opinions.

As so many men seem to detest it when women voice their thoughts, praising her for her resolve and convictions will be very meaningful to her. She will be aware of your interest in her ability to speak out on issues she is passionate about and will be grateful.

4. You Are Right.

Girls are not always correct, though. When we are, being honest about it will go a long way. Many men find it difficult to acknowledge their errors or oversights. Thus, if you find out that the lady you adore was correct about something—even something as minor as who portrayed a particular character on TV—tell her that you now see that she was correct.

5. I Apologize.

Another one that many males find challenging is this one. Apologizing will undoubtedly attract a girl's attention. It's a big step to apologize for something as minor as spilling your water and then go on to say you were actually wrong. The ladies will observe that.

Girls want to hear that you can accept responsibility for your actions because it is a great advantage.

6. I had never considered it in that way.

I am always so much more taken with a guy when he says this in response to something I've said rather than "I don't know" or "I've never heard of that." By truly listening to me, it demonstrates a willingness to learn more.

7. You have my support.

These four words can mean so much, especially when you uphold them, as you will soon discover. Simply letting her know you are there will mean a lot to her, whether she needs someone to vent to about her family or her job.

8. I'm not sure about it.

Are you able to explain it to me? Well, it's very lovely when a guy seeks a woman's advice because he wants to learn. Certainly, we all enjoy a confident man, but the most assured move you can make is to educate yourself on the topics you don't fully grasp.

Therefore, being open-minded and asking for her to explain it will surely grab her attention. It doesn't matter if you ask her to explain the wage gap, the #MeToo movement, or how tampons work.

9. Consider the past.

Name a previous time when you two were together. Whether it was last week, last month, or last year, bringing up pleasant memories of your time together will serve to remind her not only of the occasion but also of the fact that you were attentive and took the time to recall it as well.

10. What can I do to help?

It's nice to offer and ask for assistance with heavy boxes or event planning. Asking what you can do offers her the chance to determine what would genuinely be helpful as opposed to responding with "let me help" or "I'll do this," which can come off as a little patronizing.

11. I adore your sense of humor.

We want to know that we make you laugh just as much as we appreciate a guy who makes us laugh. Humor plays a huge role in a love relationship. Understanding her humor is crucial.

12. What are your thoughts?

Saying that you'd like to hear a girl's perspective on something is a terrific way to get her attention. Everything is fair game, including politics and recipes. You should ask her viewpoint since it demonstrates that you are interested in what she has to say.

13. You have a choice.

If she asks you if she should cut her hair short or if you like that she has been working out more, tell her it is her choice and that you like her for more than that. I don't mean to imply that she can always choose what to eat or watch in a movie.

Yeah, we appreciate your opinion on whether we look better in orange or pink, but what really means the most to us is when you tell us you like us regardless of how much makeup we use, how we style our hair, or what we wear.

14. I'm grateful. 

A little gratitude goes a long way. I once wrote a 10-page paper for a guy I admired after he pleaded with me, and he never said thank you. He didn't seem to value the time and work I invested, in my opinion.

Even a simple "thank you" can mean a lot. Say "thank you," whether she picked you up from the airport or got up to get you water. It's simply courteous.

15. I want you to feel at ease. 

Sure, this is a major issue at the moment, but it should always be a top concern. Just letting the girl you like know you want her to feel safe and comfortable can go a long way. You might think you are a nice guy and that this is a concession without saying it.

16. You laugh really well.

Complimenting her intellect and appearance is timeless, but what really stands out is praising the minor details that perhaps only you notice because you admire her. Praise her for her laughter, the way she always smiles at infants, or even the way she snorts.

17. You Make Me Happy. 

Many girls aren't good at revealing their emotions, and neither are guys. Yet, she'll see things differently if you tell her how you feel about her. A good place to start is by telling her that you like spending time with her or how quickly time passes when you are together.

18. I like you, i.e. Simply tell her you like her out loud if you are stuck for conversation starters or don't know how to incorporate any of these suggestions into a conversation. Absolutely, it's possible for girls to be unaware of this. Even though you may have provided all the warnings, we are nonetheless fallible. So inform her.

19. Nothing.

That's accurate. At times, being silent is the best course of action. Being a powerful, silent type is not necessary for this. Knowing when to simply listen is important.

I'm at a loss for what else to say to you if you're still unsure of how to approach a female you like in order to win her over. You might wish to move on if these solutions don't work.