7 signs of a bad girlfriend

It is true that we all have weaknesses. However, there comes a point where imperfections become far more than just flaws and become character qualities that paint a very unfavorable picture.


Simply said, some women make poor girlfriends. There are also awful boyfriends, but that isn't the topic of this article.

Awful boyfriends have been the subject of several articles, so in this one, we'll concentrate on bad girlfriends.

We frequently have a tendency to see the best in relationships. Unfortunately, this can have fatal consequences down the road because sometimes we perceive our partners as we want to see them, rather than as they actually are.

It could be time to confront the situation or quit the relationship if your girlfriend is truly a lousy girlfriend.

Here are 7 signs of a bad girlfriend.

1. She exerts control.

When I talk to women about their relationships, they frequently start out by complaining that their boyfriends don't do what they want them to do. These women will rant and rave about how their partner ignored their requests for a visit or didn't respond to their texts right away, all the while thinking that their boyfriend is the bad one. These actions actually present a very bleak picture and are quite unsettling. Imagine a male engaging in the same manner; he or she would be referred to as a psychotic or narcissistic abuser.

2. She is obsessed.

In a similar vein, compulsive behaviors can be very unsettling. A woman who won't allow her lover leave her sight, constantly checks his phone, and gets upset because he's two minutes late is not cute. However, these actions taken by women are exactly as risky as they would be if they were men.

3. She tries to change you repeatedly.


When it comes to love, unconditional love is the only way to truly adore someone. People are ultimately who they are, and they will change if they so choose. If they don't, you'll either have to let them go or embrace their flaws. Trying to change them is flat-out toxic.

4. On social media, she acts as if you don't exist.

It's a negative sign if a woman you're seeing doesn't share any photos of you on social media. While she may be a private person, if she publishes everything else, including every inch of her body, the reason she is hiding you is most likely because she is playing you.

5. She has a princess complex.

You are not more important than your partner, despite the fact that many women will find this offensive. If you want to be spoiled, you must spoil him in return. Men, if your partner exhibits self-obsession, demands special treatment, and acts spoiled, run for your life.

6. She is dishonest.

Deceptive actions are unacceptable. Yes, people do make mistakes, but if she keeps lying, cheating, or acting in any other questionable ways, it's probably just who she is.

7. She is violent.

For some reason, our culture favors crazy women. Although the phrases "crazy-beautiful" are frequently used, there is nothing appealing about a mad woman.