I had 3 side chicks, one of them was NSS personnel in my office – Man reveals

A man from Dansoman, who wants to remain anonymous, has shared his experience of having three side chicks while being married.

He explained that the rough patches he faced with his wife led him to seek attention from other women. He believes that the small fights in his marriage were responsible for killing the spark and romance. He said, “These small fights kill the juice in the marriage and guys will get into their car and pick their phones and start scrolling, looking for somebody they could talk to."

He met one of his side chicks, a national service lady, at work. They had a strong connection, and he found peace and warmth whenever he was with her. According to him, his love for his wife and children remains intact despite his infidelity. He suggested that women should be calmer and more tolerant with their husbands, allowing men to feel free to share their problems and seek comfort from their wives rather than finding solace from other women outside their marital home.

Akwasi explained that his side chicks were more patient and understanding than his wife. They allowed him to be on a video call with his wife without being bothered about it. He said, "And these girls they understand, you can be on a video call with your wife and they’ll be so cool, and they will not be bitchy about it afterwards, oh no, they’ll make you feel comfortable, and in a way, I’ll say it actually reduces stress."

He added that his relationship with his side chicks started as friendships, and they gradually grew into something more. Despite this, he advises people not to cheat on their spouses.

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