I’m Still Not Married Because Of My Child - 35-Year-Old-Cries Out

You've heard all the bad things that people say, like how single people over 40 will always be single. It makes you not even want to think about it if you've never been married or if you're divorced in your 40s.

But are all of these predictions of hopelessness really true? Are you doomed if you want to get married and have children after you turn 40? Or can you still get married and start a family after that big step?

You probably already know that my answer is "Hell, yes!"

But that "yes" comes with a lot of things to think about, many of which you've probably heard and thought about a lot.

A single mother in Nigeria who is 35 years old and has a child said that men have been avoiding her because of the child.

She says that every man who comes her way decides to stay away from her because they don't want to take care of someone else's kids.

She wrote:

“Will be 35 next year and still not married because I have a child. Any man that comes my way says he can’t cater for what is not his.”

Reacting to this, @lenaopk1 advised: “My dear don’t worry. Gods time is the best. A better man will come and he will love u and ur child like his own.”


@pashafrank765 said: “If u are serious come to me a child is not for one person a child is blessing for every one thos they are judging u on tht way they are wrong.”

@Abubakari Rahinat683 wrote: “The right man and God-fearing man will locate you and there’s no hurry in life. Allah is planning a special gift for you.”

@alhassanmahafuz12 wrote: “Allah will provide you your heart desire.”