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Club Mate Blog of Monday, 3 April 2023

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My 4 children belongs to my father in-law – Lady exposes deep dark secret

Living in a far-reaching Ghanaian village, I was no stranger to its deep-rooted traditions and beliefs. My name is Lady and I was the wife of a respected elder in the community. For years, I lived a life of relative comfort and stability; until one fateful day changed it all.

It began with the birth of my fourth child, a son. His arrival was celebrated with much joy, but he also brought with him a closely guarded secret I had been hiding for years. The truth of the matter is that my husband, the respected elder, was my father in-law, not my husband. It was a devastating discovery for me and my family, but one that could no longer be kept hidden.

I had married my husband's eldest son, a man who was unable to reproduce a child of his own. I found to my surprise that my husband’s other sons had married other women, none of which had produced any children either. In desperation, my husband had no choice but to turn to me, and after much deliberation, I chose to go along with his plan.

My husband had put much faith in me, and though I was ashamed of the truth, I didn’t want to betray him or break the trust he had bestowed upon me. I chose to keep this deep dark secret to spare my husband and my children from any public humiliation.

The truth of my father in-law's identity was the talk among the village, but it was never openly discussed or confirmed. People assumed that I was the father of all four of my children, but nobody talked about it out in the open.

Nevertheless, I am proud of my children and all that they have achieved in life despite their unique family situation. They are something I can be proud of, and that is all I ever wanted for them. While I may have made mistakes in the past, I have no regrets when it comes to my four children.

As I look back on my life, I am reminded of the resilience and strength that comes with keeping a family together. I know that my father in-law will never be able to acknowledge my children as his own, but I am still grateful for the courage that I found to keep my children safe and give them a brighter future.