Please, do not wash or cook for your boyfriend, I didn't do it for my man, yet he married me - Actress

Nollywood actress Christabel Egbenya recently spoke out about a common mistake some young girls make when trying to convince their boyfriends to marry them. She urges you not to go to great lengths like cooking, washing, and doing everything for your partner in the hope that it will lead to marriage. In fact, she reveals that she didn't do any of those things for her man, yet he still chose to marry her.

Christabel's words were prompted by a viral video showing a girl who invested all her savings on her boyfriend, only for him to run away with another woman overseas. According to Christabel, giving a man money or catering to his every need won't guarantee a lifelong commitment. She specifically warns against spending days at your partner's house, taking on the role of a wife without any formal commitment.

She emphasizes that it's important not to offer everything to a man who hasn't paid your bride price. Christabel advises against going to a man's house to cook for him, especially when you're still single. She questions why you should do his cooking and washing when you haven't even taken care of those tasks for yourself. If you do happen to spend a day at a man's place, it should be a special occasion, as she believes in maintaining independence and not going overboard.

Furthermore, she advises against giving your partner money, as this can lead to disappointment if they ultimately don't marry you. Christabel believes that the ability to marry someone is not solely dependent on financial matters. She asserts that a man who truly loves you will not waste time in making you his wife. If he seems hesitant or keeps delaying the marriage, it might be a sign that he's not fully satisfied with who you are as a person. In such cases, she suggests considering other options rather than waiting indefinitely.

In conclusion, Christabel Egbenya wants you to understand that cooking, washing, and providing financial support to your boyfriend are not guarantees of marriage. It's important to maintain your individuality and avoid offering everything before receiving a commitment. If a man truly loves you and wants to marry you, he will show it through his actions and won't hesitate to make you his wife. So, don't lose yourself in the pursuit of marriage and remember to prioritize your own well-being and happiness."

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