She refuses to do family planning and I can't go 4-5 months without sex

Chama Paul Mulenga is feeling unhappy because he suspects his wife may be pregnant, eight months after giving birth to their baby.

He voiced his concerns on a Nigerian Facebook group on April 19th. According to him, his wife has a habit of avoiding family planning, and despite his sexual desires, he can go without sex for 4-5 months.

He shared that he has been feeling exhausted from constantly trying to convince his wife to take family planning, and at times, even forcing himself on her. With his wife having missed her period this month, which typically occurs between the 10th and 12th day, he worries about their future as they already have an 8-month-old baby. Mr. Chama is seeking advice on what to do in this situation.