About The Deacon And The Side-chick Brouhaha - My Take On The Whole Issue

Anytime you are praying for the perfect partner, always pray that you get someone that will think about your peace, preference, and how simple you want your life to be first before taking any decision on his or her own.

We are all by ourselves, we can do anything we want with our lives but once you get into a relationship or deep more marriage, every decision you take, you first need to ask yourself:

Does my partner like this?

Will my partner feel comfortable hearing or seeing this?

Am I doing this for my own interest or it will also benefit my partner?


Will my partner be happy hearing or seeing what I am about to do?


What are the things that my partner doesn't like that I also don't do so that we will have a perfect and peaceful relationship?

You need to make ask yourself these questions and if your conscience tells you 'No' to any of them, you need to stop because once you are in a relationship, everything you do affects your other half.

Back to the pastor......

Now after all these stories trending, the person that is paying for all these is the pastor's wife, what wrong did she do?

The only wrong she did was marry a pastor and a banker, thinking she is marrying someone responsible.

But what did she get in return for being a good wife? The answer is SHAME.

For the man, he did it so he won't feel any guilt, for the side chick, she sued the pastor so won't feel any guilt seeing her pictures and chats trending on all social media.

But what about the wife?

She did nothing wrong, she was only being a good wife and now the shame has also fallen on her too.

Simply because the man cheated on her without thinking about the consequences of his actions.

Now people who have respect for her won't be respecting her again because of her husband, and she will feel embarrassed going outside as people will be pointing fingers at her.


And the worst part, it happened on the internet and THE INTERNET NEVER FORGETS...